DON’T LIE

Lies contribute to majority of suicide acts that take place in the world today. How is this possible? Majority of people, who commit suicide, do it because they cannot face the consequences of their previous actions.

This happens by simply telling one lie, then telling another lie to cover the first, and another to cover the other, by this time the consequences are piling up. When the truth that has been buried for so long finally surfaces, the individual might not have the courage to face the penalty which could be shame, prison, etc.

It is very important to tell the truth at all times, and avoid engaging in situations that will cause us to lie to cover up our acts. The lies may get us through presently, but at the end the penalty always become heavier than telling the truth.

Perhaps, you have done something’s wrong which you have lied about, and now the truth is out on the surface, and you’re afraid to face the penalty. do not kill yourself, because that is also another lie.

It’s like a man who owes his landlord, and he pretends to be absent when the landlord comes for rent. If you decide to kill yourself, you are just absent from your body, and that does not mean you are no longer in dept.

Be courageous, its better you face the consequences of your actions alive, no matter how harsh it may be, than die with a guilty spirit.

Declaration

I WILL SEE THE END OF THIS SITUATION, I WILL FACE TOMORROW, I WILL PAY THE PRICE OF MY ACTION, AND I WILL CREATE A NEW BEGINNING.

WAIT TILL THE END

John was a young man, who went to a popular bar to have a drink and watch his favorite soccer team play. As the match started, he engaged in an argument with a fan of the opposite team, this argument resulted in both men betting lots of money in favor of their teams while others were witnesses.

After the betting, john’s team scored the first goal and that that was the only goal in the first half. John was so excited shouted and was so confident he would win the money. During the second half, the other team scored the first, second and third goal, leading johns team with 2 goals.

The time now was 89mins and 2 minutes to the end of the match, john lost hope and did not want to witness the mockery and shame of loosing. He reached for his wallet, brought out the money, gave to the guy he had the bet with and left angrily.

He got home frustrated, got involved in an argument with his wife and said a lot of things he wished he never did.

When he woke up in the morning, watching the sports highlight, he discovered that his team won the match yesterday. As soon as he left, there was a penalty in favor of his team, and another goal from his team 2 minute in injury time. This led to extra time, which his team scored the last winning goal.

The guy he had the bet with was a total stranger, and there is no way he could trace him. Most times in life we are like john, we find ourselves in difficult situations and can’t see a way out of it.

The fear of the unknown future can be so terrifying that some people decide to take their life.

If you find yourself in a situation where you can’t face tomorrow, my advice is to wait for the worst to happen. Wait for that terrifying tomorrow to come, wait to see the end of the situation. You might discover that your team won at the end.

Declaration

I WILL SEE THE END OF THIS SITUATION, I WILL FACE TOMORROW, IF I MADE IT THROUGH TODAY, I WILL MAKE IT TOMORROW.

LOL

Yes, laugh out loud. Sometimes we find ourselves in uncomfortable situations that are overwhelming. This is when the negative thoughts dominate the positive in our minds, depression sets in, and every atom of hope fades away.

It is at the point that we hear voices that tell us stuff like “life has no meaning, life is not worth living, all hope is lost and what are we leaving for?” If we pay attention to such thoughts, the next step could be looking for away to take our minds off the situation for a while.


This is temporary fix could be alcohol or drugs, by the time we return to our normal state of mind, the problem becomes more magnified and terrifying.

By this time, the pressure from the negative thoughts becomes intense. We are no longer told that life it not worth living, but it’s time to end this misery.

All it takes to commit suicide at this point is an agreement with the thought and a decision to take action. These suicidal thoughts are now circulating round our body like a virus, and once it has taken over, our hands will be ready to pull a trigger and blow the brains off.

The only medication that can get rid of this negative virus, and stop the act of suicide now is a serious laugh. Yes, take an hour to laugh at yourself and your situation. As you laugh, whatever generates the negative thoughts becomes confused.

Even the problems that stand before us to threaten our existence become smaller.

Are you in the process of taking your life? Do you feel like life is not worth living? , are you thinking of ways to end your life? The answer to this situation is a serious laugh.

Laugh Out Loud, it might be difficult to laugh when confronted with challenging situations, but if you summon the courage to laugh for one hour without reason, you will see depression take off.

This is a secret that can save a life, before you consider taking your life as suggested by the negative thoughts, laugh at yourself and the situation.

One hour of laughter can reduce the complexity and terrorizing effect of the situation. If you are at that point of taking your life, start laughing now.

If you can get upset and depressed without reason, why can’t you laugh for one hour without reason? It’s all about choices and decisions, the difference between the one that commits suicide and the one who does not is simply decision. Decide to laugh for one hour after reading this.

Declaration

LIFE IS FUNNY, THIS SITUATION IS FUNNY, THESE THOUGHTS ARE FUNNY, I AM FUNNY AND  IT’S TIME TO LAUGH.

YOUR RIGHT ON TIME

Once in a while, we hear that someone committed suicide, and because we hear such news on rare occasions we don’t know how serious it is.

According to http://www.save.org, about 30,000 people commit suicide a year America alone. This figure  is quite alarming and something must be done to save next person who thinks of taking their life.

There are several situations that could bring about suicidal thoughts, some of these include, change in circumstance, fear of the unknown and even demonic possession (for those who believe in spirituality).

Circumstances that could encourage suicidal thoughts include the following.

·         Loss of property

·         Loss of investment

·         Job loss

·         Loss of family member or partner

·         Health challenges (this could be a disease of effect of an accident)

·         Breakup of in relationships

·         Fear of the unknown

·         Fear of facing  the consequences of our actions or inaction

·         Delayed expectation

·         Over excitement

·         addiction

If you are thinking of ending your life, or you know someone who is facing a difficult situation, you might recommend this blog. We will be providing some important steps to help counter the suicidal thoughts that creep into the mind.

Do not underestimate anybody, most times people who spent the last few hours, minutes or days with suicide victims, will say they never expected or suspected they would take their own life.

This is because we hardly can tell what is going on in one’s mind, and the thoughts are not always expressed through facial appearance.

I will encourage you to follow through this blog, if the thought of suicide has ever come across your mind. I am sure that by the time you follow through, your mindset would have changed, and you will have healthier and positive thoughts.

The mare fact that you are here, shows that you still want to live, and you will find lots of reasons to live as you go through this blog.

At the end of every article, there will be a declaration which you will have to make, to enable you take hold of your thinking process.

Declaration

I AM THE BOSS, I AM IN CHARGE OF MY THOUGHTS, IT IS NOT OVER UNTIL I SAY SO.